Community Guidelines

Consent is everything

Consent is enthusiastic, specific, and revocable at any time. "No", silence, or hesitation all mean no. Respect stated boundaries — on profiles, in chats, and in person — without pressure or negotiation.

Be real

• Use your own recent photos and truthful information.
• Couples: represent both partners honestly, with both consenting to the shared profile.
• No catfishing, impersonation, or borrowed identities.

Protect privacy — yours and others'

• Never screenshot, save, or share another member's photos or identity off-platform.
• What happens in the community stays discreet. Outing someone is a serious violation.
• Don't post others' contact details or private information.

Keep it lawful and non-commercial

• No solicitation of paid sexual services, and no commercial advertising.
• No explicit media in public profile areas or public event listings.
• Nothing illegal, and absolutely nothing involving minors — instantly reported and banned.

Zero tolerance

Harassment, threats, hate, coercion, non-consensual behavior, and sharing intimate images without consent result in immediate removal and, where appropriate, referral to authorities.

When something's wrong

Use Report on any profile, message, event, or photo. Reports are confidential — the other person is never told who reported them. Blocking is instant and mutual invisibility. Our safety team reviews every report, and content passing a report threshold is auto-hidden pending review.